Has anyone heard of “Synthetic cannabis?’ This drug (also know as K-2, spice, herbal smoking blends, and occasionally herbal incense) has multiple chemical make ups (several illegal and a few still under debate) and is being used to gain the same effect that marijuana has one ones mind. Outlawed in many parts of Europe and on it’s way in the U.S., this is not a “safe drug.” Although it is a synthetic drug, it still produces the effects of marijuana and emergency rooms are reporting a rise in call to 911 and poison control in relation to this relatively new drug. The scary part: it doesn’t show up on drug tests. So what do we as parents, youth ministers, elders, and congregations do?
1) Talk to them. You would be amazed at how many families don’t have good communication. Keep the lines of communication open with your teens. This drug is being marketed to those primarily 17 years and younger. Kids are taking drugs at a much younger age these days so it is never to early to talk to your teen about drugs and their negative effects. We must educate our teens in good decision making and affirmation of those good choices.
2) Pray, pray, pray. Prayer is our avenue of petitioning to God. Whether it is synthetic cannabis (K-2) or the first day of a new school, the entire family, ministry staff, and congregation should be lifting it’s teens up in prayer. Beg God to give us the wisdom to help our teens.
3) Remind them they’re not alone. Sometimes teens give into peer pressure because they feel singled out and alone. They feel like the nerd, loser, or nobody. We need to help them understand that they are never alone and they can handle anything they come across with the help of God and their family (physical and spiritual).
4) Inform parents. Parents don’t usually know their children as well as they think they do. Ever heard this: “my child would never do that.” One of the hardest tasks I faced as a youth minister was getting parents to come to grips with the world their child lived in.
5) Ask for help. Never be to proud to ask advice from someone else when you are “in over your head.” Our teens well being should never be succeeded by our pride. We all have problems. That’s what your physical and spiritual family is here for–to help.
6) Allow them individualism. I am not speaking in the sense of what they wear. We need to realize that our teens are created as beings with free will. Just as God cannot make you or I do what he asks, neither can we always be there to force our children to make good decisions. We have to trust our teens (to a reasonable degree) and trust God.
7) Forgive. If our teens mess up, we must forgive them (whether or not they apologize). We must continue to love them and continue to forgive them. This does not mean they will not face consequences that have been earned. It means that “just as God has forgiven us, we forgive others.”
Those of you who have been in ministry for a while, have raised children, or have had experiences in relation; what other advice would you give? How do we go about educating our teens and parents? How can the congregation as a whole raise a child to be Godly?